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Friday, January 01, 2010

The last month!

Holy Cow! I feel overwhelmed just thinking about all the information I am about to lay on you blog readers out there (kind of like Charleigh in this picture)....last month in a nutshell...

I'll pick up where I left off. Charleigh turned three months on December 14th. She is hitting all her milestones perfectly and I continue to be amazed at how she just knows things and all the stuff she is "supposed" to do...like, I didn't teach her to roll over, she just did, and...I didn't show her how to hold onto things but she does (especially my hair these days...haha, and Prissy's tongue once). She is kicking up a storm now, and grabbing for her feet. She stares at them intently until her body falls forward and she almost gets them in her mouth. Fun to watch. My favorite is when she grabs the bottom of her little dresses, which she always does. It looks like she is doing a little curtsey. I love that. She also has become much more interested in Prissy, whom she used to ignore or get annoyed with. Now she watches her. Justin said she is learning how to stalk her prey..and will some day be a hunter like him...I'm hoping not. She also is on more of a regular napping schedule now, and boy I like schedules. One BAD development...she is SO teething already. I tried to live in denial at first but everyone has pointed it out. She drools like do other, rubs her gums with her hands, and chews on her pacy instead of sucking it. She also....BITES while nursing!!! AHHH, Luckily she has no teeth and I plan to put an end to that ASAP. So, anyway, that was all happening over the last month. She is still developing more things daily...I'll write about more of her newest developments later.
So, what has the Tyner family been up to lately you ask? Well, I'd be glad to tell you:

First came the Fuller Christmas Reunion back in Bama. (the weekend before Christmas) I wrote about this in my last post...this was the weekend we got her ears pierced and she met Santa.

So, I'll pick up from there. That week a LOT of friends from out of town came in town...so we had a girls' brunch to be able to see each other before we all ran frantically in our separate directions. Charleigh got to meet all these girls for the first time! She acted fine but the brunch was right in the middle of one of her naptimes...so she wasn't her usual bubbly self. Oh well, so life goes with babies! I miss our college times with these girls but, we will always stay as connected as possible :)

That night was the Christmas Eve service at our church, which I love. I get chill bumps when they turn out all the lights and thousands of people hold candles...just something about that gets me every time. And I tear up when all the little kiddies take offering up and lay it in the manger. Unfortunately, Justin was sick that night so Charleigh and I headed out without him. But we met up with Big Mama, Jo and James. Big Mama made Charleigh's outfit in this picture, too cute :)So, we headed home on that rainy night and were so glad to get back to our sick Daddy. Justin and I wasted no time putting her to bed and filling each other's stockings. It was SOOO fun to fill Charleigh's stocking this year. I literally could not have shoved one more thing inside of it. Here is a video of her waking up for her first Christmas! We literally had to wake her up an hour earlier than usual so that is why she is a bit out of it.
Here we are doing our family tradition that Jus and I have done every Christmas since we've been married. Underwear hats! We always put underwear in each other's stockings and then have to wear them on your head while you open your presents...our kids will hate us one day, but for now...
(Charleigh looks somewhat like a KKK member, oops)
And here is the hoodie I made for Jus...I digitized his hunting club logo and appliquéd it on a hoodie with Mossy Oak camo fabric. He loved it!

Another tradition on Christmas morning is to pack up our things and head to Bama. Our goal is to get there in time for the family breakfast around 10am. I'm afraid this is going to get EXTREMELY hard to do the bigger our family grows :( But this year, we made it!I let Charleigh wear her pajamas all day because it's Christmas, and you should be able to wear your PJs all day if you want to!Here is the hoodie I made for my mom and my sister. They loved thier's too. I am so glad because I worked hard on those :) That day we participated in another Shirley family tradition which is MOVIES on Christmas! We took all the bazillion kids with us so we opted for Alvin and the Chipmunks. It was Charleigh's first cinema experience and she sat in my lap and actually watched the movie! She even let out a laugh every once in a while. Too cute!

So, if that week couldn't have been any busier...we rushed home the next day to do Christmas with Paw Paw and Granmama.They got her this cool exersaucer. She is too short for it so I put a box underneath and it seems to work just fine! She stares at that frog on there and now (closer to 4 months) has started yelling at it. I don't know what Mr. Froggie did, but she is NOT happy with him. We got to see Jo and James (and Nuggette...no they have not picked a name and I am mad about it frankly).And Bubba, Angie, and Jackson!
She felt very loved it seems...
Here we are about to open her presents.
And with Paw Paw...
And sleeping with Granmama...
That night we headed over to Big Mama's house to celebrate some more!!
We had fun opening all our presents...especially Charleigh's (the toy Justin is playing with is Charleigh's in case you were confused).
And these are the matching PJs Big Mama made us for Christmas...we wore them that night.
So, all in all, this Christmas was the best one yet :)

On to New Year's Eve. Oh my, I could (and probably should) write a whole post on this topic. But...
New Year's Eve we had the whole crew over to our house for a rock band show down. We haven't played in forever so it was fun to dust off the old drums and get down with some new faces who have now joined our group (by group, I am mostly talking about couples from our SS class or from the "baby club") We ended up ringing in the new year by playing Pop Culture Trivial Pursuit...boys against girls of course. And for once, we let the boys win...We all got our new year kisses and went to BED!

I took the next day to reflect on the year past. We started off last year with a hard hit...the news of our 3rd miscarriage (Biscuit). We were just crushed and so glad to get that year behind us. Little did we know that we were already pregnant with my sweet Charleigh angel. It would be a couple more weeks until we would find out :) I remember thinking that this year was going to be different for us. I dug back in my blog to last year and here is what I wrote:

A double portion.
Isaiah 61:7 (New International Version)7 Instead of their shame, my people will receive a double portion, and instead of disgrace they will rejoice in their inheritance; and so they will inherit a double portion in their land, and everlasting joy will be theirs.

As we reflect on all that God has done in our lives over the past year, we look forward to an even greater level of the promises of God in the year to come! Isaiah 61:7 promises that instead of shame and trouble, God will double the inheritance of His people and they'll be filled with everlasting joy. This is God's promise to me: double for your trouble! A "double portion" of God's goodness, a "double portion" of His favor and wisdom on my life. That is our prayer for 2009. It's time for me to trust God for the destiny that the enemy has tried so hard to convince me was impossible. It's time to believe God for the unimaginable. It's time to move beyond my past. I've been hurt, it's time to forgive. I've been discouraged, it's time to put on a garment of praise and experience the joy of the Lord. I've been worried and afraid, it's time to have faith like never before in the provision and purposes of God. It's time to live with confidence that God wants to give me a blessed and prosperous future in every area of my life! The power of God's promises and His love for me is so much stronger than the pain of my past. We know this in our hearts. God wants us to use our troubles as a springboard into our future. Our troubles are what God often uses to take us to a new, higher level of living. This is what is so great about our God. He takes any trouble we have and says, "I will give you double the inheritance for your trouble." Twice the joy, twice the fulfillment, twice the impact . . . twice the life!" We're believing for twice the life. We're asking God to open twice as many doors this year for hope to find its home in twice as many places. With all of the challenges in the world today, what we have done in the past won't be able to take us to where God is calling us to go in the future. We need God to multiply us — He's the source of every blessing, every gift and every hope for tomorrow. As we were getting ready for church last Sunday morning (just a few days after we found out that we lost our third baby) Justin was getting ready and singing "God is Good, All the Time". I just stopped what I was doing (in the other room) and sat there and listened. It was very sweet. Sweet for my soul. He is good...all the time. Throughout the last week, I've asked Justin to sing that song periodically...songs mean a lot to me, they are so full of expression and emotion. I cling to songs when I'm happy and when I'm sad. To hear this song come from the ONE person on this earth that I KNOW is going through the same emotions and hurts that I am...was so very sweet.
God is good
all the time
He put a song of praise
in this heart of mine
God is good
all the time
Through the darkest night,
His light will shine
God is good,
God is good
all the time

If you're walking
through the valley
And there are shadows all around
Do not fear,
He will guide you
He will keep you safe and sound
'Cause He's promised
to never leave you
Nor forsake you
and His Word is true

God is good
all the time
He put a song of praise
in this heart of mine
God is good
all the time
Through the darkest night,
His light will shine
God is good,
God is good
all the time

We were sinners
-so unworthy
Still for us He chose to die
Filled us with His
Holy Spirit
Now we can stand and testify
That His love is everlasting
And His mercies
-they will never end

God is good
all the time
He put a song of praise
in this heart of mine
God is good
all the time
Through the darkest night,
His light will shine
God is good,
God is good
all the time

Though I may not understand
all the plans you have for me
my life is in your hands
and through the eyes of faith I can clearly see...

God is good
all the time
He put a song of praise
in this heart of mine
God is good
all the time
Through the darkest night,
His light will shine
God is good,
God is good
all the time

Okay, so, going back and reading that post was sobbering to me. It brought back all those emotions like it was yesterday. When I read it, I ran to Charleigh's room (while she is sleeping) and had to look at her precious face. Oh how Good he has been to us THIS year! I am interested to reach this point next year and see how far God has taken me from this point now. He is so fun, how he works and all. And from that heartache, this my friends, is how I spent my new year's day this year:

Praise the Lord!

Whew, that afternoon we went to eat our black eyed peas at lunch with Big Mama. And just a few days later we got this video of Charleigh laughing at ME:
She is such a giggle box and I LOVE it!

And after we rang in the new year we had to get started living life as usual. My Girls' Ministry (Chosen) started back up. And we are returning to our roots. We are going back to the Song of Solomon to study purity and the dating relationship. Such a great topic for these younguns...so far, our room has been PACKED out every Monday night. These girls give me joy.

Another big event, my husband was voted to become at deacon at our church. We were beyond shocked when he was picked because that church is HUGE and he's so young. But he was very honored to accept the position and has used it to motivate him to grow even more spiritually so he can live up to the title. He's so cute. My mom and dad came in town to watch the ordination that Sunday night. We planned to get some pictures afterwards (I even coordinated our outfits) but, the pastor invited everyone to greet us after the shindig was over and marms and pops had to hit the road before we could snap any pictures :( Boo. I am SOOO proud of the man I married though. Just know that.

While mom and dad where here Charleigh showed off her favorite thing to do...SQUEAL! Check out the video of her Squealling with Granny on my facebook (I didn't want to upload ANOTHER video on this one post).

And then, on the 14th of this month, Charleigh turned 4 months! She is talking like crazy now. Not making any words of course but just babbling at any and everything she sees. She LOVES the tv and talks to it regularly. Even though I try not to let her watch it too much, it is quite hilarious to see her yelling at the characters.

Okay, so onto Charleigh's dedication at church. She was just precious. As a Baptist Christian we do not believe in baptizing babies. According to the bible, baptism is the outward illustration of what happens inside of you when you get saved. It's a choice YOU have to make, not your parents. So, in our opinion, it is pointless to baptize someone until they are saved. So, what we do instead is dedicate our child to the Lord. Which is just a fancy way of saying, we commit to raising her in a Godly home. Teaching her the Bible and living our lives as REAL christians. That is very important to us. I pray daily that God will keep me from myself. That my daughter will look at me and say, "My mom is real...she REALLY loves God and lives every day for him". I want that so badly. So, here she was, being dedicated to the Lord.
My parents came down AGAIN for the second weekend in a row to be there for it. Plus, Jessica, Sharry, Brandy and her kids too.


And, to TRY to wrap up this post. Charleigh had her 4 month checkup on Tuesday (the 19th) and here are her stats: weight-70th percentile, height-95th percentile, and head circumference-85th percentile. I swear I am only feeding her breastmilk, but she weighed 14 lbs and 7 oz (and she has slowed down tremendously over the last month...thank goodness).
Oh well...if you got this far in your reading, congratulations...post the words "I DID IT!" as a comment. I have the strange feeling I won't get many of those....

Monday, December 14, 2009

3 months old!


With this blog I will officially be CAUGHT UP! Yes, Charleigh is 3 months old...right NOW! Can you believe it?? The date on this post is correct December 14th was her 3 month birthday (if you call that a birthday??)So, this week started off pretty low key. As I rushed to finish my Prissy Pink Polka Dot orders and get my own gifts together as well. Luckily, Charleigh was willing to cooperate with Mommy and was happy to sit in her fortress of pillows :)
On Tuesday we ventured out to the Pace High SGA Christmas party. Celene invited us to come back so that all the kids could meet Charleigh. I've wanted to bring her up to the school so many times but I am sooo scared she will catch something up there! So, I was glad to go to their Christmas party. I whipped up this little dress for Charleigh so that she could be festive :) We didn't end up wearing that headband because the feathers kept getting in her face :(
Then, this weekend we headed to BAMA! My mom's side of the family had their annual Christmas get-together. We got there late Friday night so it was just us and Papa and Granny (and Aunt Jessica). Everyone just kept laughing at how fat she had gotten and wanted to see her naked sooo, here she is in all her glory :) So cute!My parents have 14 grandchildren so, they started a tradition long ago of going to each grandkid's house and giving them their presents early. That way they got to see each of them open their gifts instead of mad chaos on Christmas morning. So, it was Charleigh's turn Friday night.Here she is with all her presents, staring intently.If I got them going, whe would grab the paper and fling her arms, so she totally helped open them.This was my favorite gift...Granny and Papa gave Charleigh her ear piercing!!
So, the next day was the family get-together, which I didn't take any pictures at. Sorry. I wasn't thinking "blog" at the moment. But afterwards Me, Charleigh, Brandy, Jessica, Tatum, and Granny all loaded up and went to EastChase in Montgomery to get Tatum's and Charleigh's ears pierced. Tatum was so cute, she's 5 now but she had her ears pierced at Charleigh's age (she accidentally let her holes grow up). She had been too scared to get them pierced again until we told her that baby Charleigh was getting hers done. She said she would go first to show baby Chaw-lee how to do it without crying. And she did! She didn't cry at all. So she totally got a princess doll as a prize for being strong. Here is Tatum before:
And here she is after: (you can't see her earrings really well, but she was tucking her hair behind her ears so that you could)
Then it was Charleigh's turn. I was sooo nervous. Here was Charleigh before:
And here she is after: (she did cry but as you can see, she calmed down once I gave her the bottle. It wasn't half as bad as her shots!)

The next morning we all headed off to church and afterwards wanted to take Charleigh to the Bass Pro Shop to meet Santa. They really do it up for Christmas. They had a whole village set up where kids can decorate cookies and play with toy cars and shoot little guns...and it was all free. They even gave us pictures with Santa...we took our own as well.
Here we are waiting in line on our way to the North Pole.
She looked so little compared to Santa. And best thing, she didn't cry!

Some crafts I've been up to:
Here are some of the aqua/pink ornaments I've been making for our tree. Some have stripes, some have little dots, but the ones that look the cutest are the big polka dot ones :)
Also, I made us all new stocking, in the fabric of my choosing. The girls are embroidered in pink and the boys (Daddy) are embroidered in green. We need to add more boys to the crowd.


Anyway, this week is CHRISTMAS. We will definitely update after we finish our christmas festivities! Merry Christmas to you all!

Tuesday, December 08, 2009

So, we're overflowing here. (week 12)


Christmas is finally here...well, coming fast! I have been sooo busy with Christmas gifts and The Prissy Pink Polka Dot that I haven't had as much time to take pictures and videos so this post may be shorter than most :)

I'll start with the few pictures I did take of my angel this week:

Tatum LOVES holding baby Chaw-lee!

I made this picture the backdrop on my cell phone. It just makes me happy ;)
Charleigh wore her first pair of jeans this week:
Has a daddy ever loved a baby this much? I don't think so.
Charleigh is doing cute things like giggling now. She loves to be on her changing table and we just talk and she giggles. I can poke her right under her chin and she does one of those cute baby belling laughs. I can't keep myself from cracking up when that happens.
She is still doing great on sleeping. Her bedtime is 9pm and she is sleeping till 7 most days. Some days she wants to get up at 6 but either way, I get to sleep!
I am still debating the cereal issue. I do want her reflux to stop but...I just don't feel good about it. I'm going to hold off for now ;)

Oh, one things she started doing recently is fighting sleep. I hate this! Most times she lays down for her naps with no problem, just stares off until she drifts to sleep but once or twice a day she will just be fussy when I lay her down. I can tell she is sooo tired but she just won't let herself go to sleep. If I spend a few minutes with her she is asleep in no time but...is this gonna get worse?? I hope not.
This week we met up with our good friend Audrey again. I love when she sees Charleigh because she notices all the changes she is making physically. It cool to hear another perspective since I see her everyday.

And now to refer to the title of this post. We're overflowing! Out of our house that is. We have too much stuff. Let me re-phrase that...Charleigh has too much stuff. And having my own small business in a tiny room isn't helping either. So we are looking at building again. I am super excited and I think it will be a great move for us financially. We don't want to jump into it but maybe in the next few months we will get something going. yay!
Charleigh is 3 months next week!

Boy am I thankful! (week 11)

Look how big those cheeks are getting!
We had a lazy day at home so we decided to dress up a bit and play. She looks like a little ballerina so I put her ballet shoes on her (she kicked them right off).
This little chick is so stinkin' happy. I am so thankful for that, her smile is what I LIVE for these days!
Alrighty, on with the post....

This week was Thanksgiving week! Oh, how thankful I am for my sweet family. Of course I am thankful for all the blessings that the Lord has given us, the struggles he has kept us from but I'd be crazy not to focus on our biggest blessing this year...Charleigh. I think back to this time last year and wow, I couldn't have imagined we'd be spending the next Thanksgiving with our own little 2 months old bundle of JOY! We hadn't even gone through out 3rd miscarriage yet. There is no way I could predict how happy I am with the way things turned out. I love her. More than stupid petty words can ever express.

So, we spent Turkey Day with Paw Paw and Granmama. Have I ever mentioned that she is THE BEST cook on the planet! Stinks for me because nothing I make will ever compare to Granmama... but, the good news is, I get to EAT it! I'll take that deal any day :)
Paw Paw helped with the cooking as well, but he can never resist playing with Jus for a bit :)
Charleigh and I were eagerly awaiting the dinner bell.And we even brought Prissy along. Cause we knew Granmama wouldn't mind (she loves Prissy). The poor thing gets left at home so much now :( I wanted her to know we were thankful for her sweet self too.
After we eat, this is ALWAYS were Justin ends up!


That weekend it was off to Bama to celebrate Thanksgiving with my family! We were traveling during the Alabama/Auburn game so I made sure Charleigh was all Tiger-ed out for the ride (don't worry the tutu was soft and comfy).We almost pulled out a win but...oh well. At least we looked cute rooting for our team ;) The next day it was time to EAT. So Charleigh put on her Thanksgiving dress and got to see all her aunts and uncles again. And of course, Granny and Papa.
Here is Sharry holding Charleigh and me holding Camden. They wore matching dresses! So cute.
Speaking of Sharry. I posted a while ago about the ordeal she is going through to have a child. After being diagnosed with Stage 4 endometriosis and being forced into menopause for 4 months now. She had her BIG surgery Dec 10th. Things looked a little better in there and the doc thinks he got most of it. Her left ovary was attached to her colon which he fixed and drained everything (tubes and all). She is recovering now from this surgery which is hard, and will have to be on menopause for a couple more months but then....things are hopeful. Please pray for her, I want her to have a baby so BAD!

Well, during Turkey Day FSU and Florida played. Soooo, we of course had to show our support. This game wasn't so close but again...fashion won overall! And you might notice something quite disappointing...no earrings :( We had planned to get her little ears pierced over Thanksgiving weekend while we were up in Bama but sure enough, when we actually set out to do it, Justin put a stop to it. He wasn't against her ears being pierced, he was having a hard time knowing that we would be causing her to cry. To be honest, that is the part that broke my heart too. But I knew it was something she would love in the future (I did) and I wanted to do it while she was young and couldn't pull at them. So, he agreed to make it one of her Christmas presents.
Before we left Bama I had to priviledge of spending some one-on-one time with my baby sister Jessica. She is tired of living away from God, and she desperately wants to return to her first love for him. She knows how she wants to live, how she is supposed to live, but it's just hard to start all over. To have to give up your friends, your weekends, your hangout and turn to "nothing" so it seems. But I've never seen her more passionate about it. I know Satan will attack and attack hard so PLEASE say a little prayer for her as well. Pray for strength in the hard times, and pray for Godly friends to jump into her life.
Soo, after all the excitement of Thanksgiving we put up our Christmas tree, and Charleigh's of course.
Here is the problem with our tree so far. See that dark spot in the middle?? That would be a strand of the pre-lit lights that isn't working. I tried to replace them but every single bulb on that strand was blown and I ran out of replacements! Ahhhh, oh, and I still need to put ornaments up. Justin accidentally broke most my ornaments from last year so I decided to make some news ones for this year. I think I am going with pink and aqua. We have more estrogen in this house anyway so, too bad Justin :)
Here is Charleigh's tree (taken with my iPhone, sorry for the picture quality). It matches her black/white/hotpink room!

Now on to some crafting I've done...I made all new stockings for Granmama's house. I think they turned out just adorable. I tried to match everyone's personality. He's a big Tennessee fan.
I loved how Angie's turned out so I decided I am going to make new stockings for my little family too. They will all look like this one :)
I don't feel the need to explain Justin's.
I friggin' LOVED this retro print fabric soooo...
This one looks way cuter in person I think.
FSU fan.
This one is for Nuggette (Joanna's baby girl) who does not have a name yet!
This one was made to match those fish/deer shirts he wears all the time...hahaha!
I love these flowers!


I have also been BUSY with the Prissy Pink Polka Dot. I won't be posting EVERYTHING I'm making, that would take days. But I will post some of it that I find especially cute. Some of my favorite things to make these days are appliquéd onesies.
These are for twin girls.
Here is an Alabama tutu complete with houndstooth ribbon and all.
And here is the little onesie I made to go with it. I wanted to use the houndstooth fabric for the Alabama A but all the craft stores were sold out!

Here are some bibs and burp cloths I made for my mom. They are cowboy and cowgirl themed.
Some new stuff going on with Charleigh during her 11th week: she is eating like crazy, eating me out of house and home I tell ya! And you can definitely tell. She is starting to pack on the pounds finally. I will not be surprised if her 4 month doctor's visit shows her in the upper percentiles on weight. Also, I think she is at the beginning stage of teething. She slobbers over everything, and she chews her pacy rather than sucking it. She likes when I rub her gums, thinks it's funny. She only wants to sit up now. When you lay her in your lap she strains to lift her head up and sits like that until you sit her up yourself. It's adorable but just another reminder that she is growing up too fast. She also LOVES to stand on her legs. According to my "milestone chart" she isn't supposed to do that until 4 months! But she loves it I tell ya, I guess it makes her feel grown?? She also watched her first Baby Einstein video. She cried at first, then started laughing at the TV, too funny. I don't let her watch too much (because I heard it rots their brains) but I figure 30 minutes won't hurt. She has gotten very good at squealing. When she gets really excited she stiffens her arms and legs and lets out a big "AHHHHH"! And, I finally caught her rolling over on video! yay:

We also found out that she loves it when Justin whistles to her (which you'd be surprised how much he whistles). She would smile and take a deep breath every time he whistled, it was so cute.
I later realized that when Justin whistles, he blows really hard. So I started thinking that maybe he was blowing in her face. Sure enough, that little smile she was making, was really Daddy taking her breath away. I feel horrible for letting this go on!! Poor baby!